Creating Choices

After God created the world, He made man and woman. Then, to keep the whole thing from collapsing, She invented humor.

Sexual activity, indeed the frenetic preoccupation with sex that characterizes Western culture, is in many cases not the expression of a sexual interest at all, but rather a search for the satisfaction of the need for simple contact. Ashley Montagu

Never do to others what you would not like them to do to you. 

Confucius 450 BCE

The very first version of the Golden Rule

Couple's Heart

Books for Women (and Men too!)

  • Pussy: A Reclamation, by Regena Thomashauer, 2018, ISBN 1401950264
  • Extended Massive Orgasm: How You Can Give and Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure, by Steve Bodansky  and Vera Bodansky, 2000, ISBN 0091857430
  • Feminine Genius: The Provocative Path to Waking Up and Turning On the Wisdom of Being a Woman, by LiYana Silver, 2017, ISBN 9781622038299
  • Reveal: a Sacred Manual for Getting Spiritually Naked, by Meggan Watterson, 2013, ISBN 1401938205
  • Wild Feminine: Finding Power, Spirit & Joy in the Female Body, by Tami Lynn Kent, 2011, ISBN 1582702845
  • Desire, by Saida Desilets, 2018, ISBN 978-1-62865-532-2
  • Mama Gena's Owner's and Operator's Guide to Men, by Regena Thomashauer, 2004, ISBN 0743249127

  • Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype, by Clarissa Pinkola Estés, 1996, ISBN 978-0345409874
  • Vagina: A New Biography, by Naomi Wolf, 2013, ISBN 1844086895
  • Woman – An Intimate Geography, by Natalie Angier, 1999, ISBN 0385498411
  • Goddesses Never Age: The Secret Prescription for Radiance, Vitality, and Well-Being, by Christiane Northrup, 2016, ISBN 1401945953
  • Awakening Shakti: The Transformative Power of the Goddesses of Yoga, by Sally Kempton, 2013, ISBN 1604079444
  • Heart Sense: Unlocking Your Highest Purpose and Deepest Desires, by Paula M. Reeves, 2003, ISBN 9781573248198

  • The Yoni: Sacred Symbol of Female Creative Power, by Rufus C. Camphausen, 1996, ISBN 0892815620
  • When God Was a Woman, by Merlin Stone, 1978, ISBN 015696158X
  • Who Cooked the Last Super? The Women’s History of the World, by Rosalind Miles, 1988, 2001, ISBN 0609806955​
  • A Mind of Its Own - a Cultural History of the Penis, by David M. Friedman, 2001, ISBN 0142002593


New lovers seek perfection.
Seasoned lovers learn the art of sewing scraps together and seeing beauty in a multitude of patches.

Knowledge talks.

Wisdom listens.

Man invented language to satisfy his deep need to complain.
Lily Tomlin

Love is not how you feel.

Love is how you behave.